Imagine going nearly three decades without seeing your ex-spouse—especially one as iconic as Liam Gallagher. That’s exactly what Patsy Kensit revealed recently, and it’s a story that’s both fascinating and surprisingly relatable. During her appearance on Never Mind The Buzzcocks, Patsy, now 57, opened up about her thoughts on the Oasis reunion, calling it ‘magical’ and a ‘cultural explosion.’ But here’s where it gets personal: she admitted she hasn’t seen Liam in 26 years. Despite the distance, Patsy expressed genuine happiness for their son, Lennon, who got to witness the band’s resurgence firsthand. ‘I couldn’t be happier for the band and all the people rediscovering them,’ she shared, showcasing a maturity that’s both admirable and thought-provoking.
Patsy and Liam’s whirlwind romance began in the late 90s, culminating in their 1997 wedding and the birth of their son Lennon in 1999. Their relationship coincided with the peak of Liam’s fame, but it wasn’t meant to last—they parted ways in 2000. In a candid HELLO! interview last November, Patsy confirmed she’s had ‘no contact’ with Liam or her first husband, Simple Minds’ Jim Kerr, for years. But here’s where it gets controversial: while many might assume she’d feel bitter or left out, Patsy insists she’s ‘really pleased’ for Liam and the band. ‘It was 30 years ago!’ she exclaimed, shutting down rumors of any lingering resentment.
What’s truly striking is Patsy’s perspective on co-parenting. Despite her own strained relationships with her exes, she’s always championed the bond between a father and child. ‘It’s really important,’ she explained, drawing from her own childhood experiences with an absent father. And this is the part most people miss: her ability to separate her personal feelings from what’s best for her sons is a masterclass in emotional intelligence. Still, she admits it hasn’t been easy. When Lennon moved in with his model girlfriend, Izzy Richmond, Patsy confessed, ‘It’s just broken my heart because they grow, and they leave.’
Patsy’s journey as a mother is equally compelling. In a heartfelt conversation on HELLO!’s Second Act podcast, she admitted to being overly co-dependent on her sons, James (with Jim Kerr) and Lennon. ‘I put way too much pressure on them,’ she reflected, acknowledging the challenges of letting go as they’ve grown into adulthood. Her honesty about the struggles of motherhood—especially as her children forge their own paths—resonates deeply with anyone who’s navigated similar waters.
Here’s the question that lingers: In an era where celebrity breakups often turn toxic, is Patsy Kensit’s approach to co-parenting and moving forward the exception or the rule? Her story challenges us to rethink how we view relationships, fame, and family. What do you think? Is it possible to truly separate the past from the present, or is there always a lingering connection? Let’s discuss in the comments!
